Build the confident life you actually want.
Middle Kid Club is where you come to build a more confident, more connected life — through a likeminded community, intentional events, and coaching that actually helps you grow.
Confidence and connection aren't things you find on your own. They're built alongside other people — showing up, having a go, and realising you were never the only one figuring it out.
Intentional events
Coffee clubs, supper clubs, walks, talks and socials with a likeminded community — each one built around social, mind or body, and all of them a low-pressure way to build confidence.
See what's on →1:1 confidence coaching
A structured 6-week programme, one to one, built entirely around you. For when the confidence work feels bigger than one event or one exercise.
Explore the programme →The Confidence Hub
Free confidence content, exercises, challenges and mindset tools — so your confidence keeps building between events and long after them.
Browse the hub →You're not alone. You're just doing it alone.
That's how many of us are truly thriving.
Gallup's global wellbeing research finds only around a third of adults rate their lives highly enough to be called "thriving" — most of us are just getting by. Building a genuinely confident, fulfilling life doesn't happen by accident. It happens with the right people, tools and structure around you.
Source: Gallup World Poll / Life Evaluation Index, 2024.
Why people feel stuck
It's rarely about potential. It's about confidence.
Most people who feel stuck aren't lacking ambition or ability — they're missing the confidence to actually go for it, and trying to build a better life without anyone in their corner. That's not a personal failing. It's just what happens when connection, confidence and physical wellbeing all get treated as separate, solo projects.
You've outgrown networking
Forced small talk and events with an agenda don't build real confidence or real friendships — and most people know it.
Confidence work alone doesn't stick
Books and podcasts can only take you so far without people around you doing the same work.
Movement gets deprioritised
Physical wellbeing is usually the first thing to slip when life gets busy — even though moving builds the same confidence everything else depends on.
Membership
One membership. One confidence programme.
Everything included in one simple membership — plus structured 1:1 confidence coaching when you're ready to go deeper.
Community, connection, belonging. Find your people, find your place. Thoughtfully curated events centred around social, mind & body — helping you live better and build your confidence. Includes free confidence content to keep you growing all the time.
6 weeks, 1:1, built entirely around you. For when the confidence work feels bigger than one event or one exercise.
What's on
Upcoming events.
From free weekly meetups to ticketed talks and parties — every one of them a low-pressure way to build your confidence. Members get one ticketed event a month included.
The Confidence Hub
Your confidence doesn't stop growing after the event.
Inside your membership, you'll unlock a growing hub of confidence tools, exercises and challenges — built to help you actually apply what you're learning between sessions.
Explore the Confidence Hub →
Meet the founder
You don't have to be a Middle Kid to get this.
"When something wakes you up at 3am, it's probably worth exploring."
Middle Kid Club started with a feeling a lot of us know — stuck between others, unsure of your place, quietly wondering who your people really are. I built MKC from that exact experience, to create a space where you build confidence without ever having to shrink to belong.
Read the full story →Ready to stop
playing small?
Join a community of people building confidence, connection and better lives — together. £15 a month, everything included.