Middle Kid Club
It started with a kid who didn’t think she was enough.
So she built a community for people who want to connect, belong and feel more confident in their life.
What we're about
Community. Connection. Confidence.
Come for the coffee, stay for the people, and leave a little braver than you arrived.
Find your crowd
A free community of people who get it. No cliques, no pretending to have it all figured out.
- Free WhatsApp community
- A weekly note from me
- People cheering you on
Show up in person
Events that mix movement, coffee and proper conversation. The easiest way to meet people without the awkwardness.
- Coffee Club and Co-Working Club
- Runs, yoga, pilates and beach walks
- Talks and socials with local partners
Build it, for real
Confidence isn't a personality type. It's a skill, and you build it by doing the thing first.
- Free tools in the Confidence Hub
- The Self-Paced Journal
- 1:1 coaching with me
What's on
Regular ways to show up.
You don't need to bring anyone. Most people come on their own the first time.
Co-Working Club
Bring your laptop to Crossbar. Coffee, pastries, quiet rooms for calls and good company while you work.
Find out more → MonthlyCoffee Club
A relaxed morning of coffee and real conversation at a different independent café each time.
See the next date → Throughout the yearMove & meet
Runs, yoga, pilates, breathwork and beach walks with brilliant local partners, usually with a drink after.
See all events →25+ events and workshops in our first three months, and plenty more to come.
See all events →Confidence isn't something you either have or you don't. It's something you build.Jessica, founder
Build your confidence
Start wherever you are.
From a free tool you can use tonight to six weeks of 1:1 coaching.
The Confidence Hub
Free tools you can use today, from the Wheel of Life to the Future Self Letter.
Explore the Hub → Self-pacedThe Self-Paced Journal
My 21-day confidence method, built on Notice, Ask, Move, Evidence, at your own pace.
Get your journal → 1:1 coachingThe Confidence Reset
Six weeks to stop playing small, rebuild self-trust and start taking action.
See how it works →Not sure where to start? Take the 2-minute quiz → or book a free call with me →
Why Middle Kid Club exists
You're capable of more than you're letting yourself be.
Middle Kid Club brings together real community and practical confidence coaching. Events for when you want to find your crowd, and coaching for when you want focused support to go after something bigger.
Because confidence grows faster when you're not doing it alone.
And no, you don't need to be an actual middle kid to join. You just need to be ready to stop holding yourself back.
How I help
What changes for you.
We don't just talk about how you feel. We get you doing the things you've been putting off, and build the self-trust to keep going.
What changes
- →You speak up in the room, instead of replaying it on the way home.
- →You go after the thing you've been sitting on.
- →You stop waiting to feel ready, and trust yourself to figure it out.
- →You stop shrinking to fit in, and start backing who you actually are.
What makes it different
About me
The origin story.
How a bullied middle kid ended up building a club for people who are done playing small.
Growing up
I know what it feels like to think you're not good enough.
Growing up, I was badly bullied for being who I was. It knocked my confidence, but it also lit a big fire in my belly: I didn't want to spend my life changing who I was to fit in.
Learning to back myself
The youngest in the room, and one of the only women.
Later in my career, I was often the youngest person in the room and one of the only women. Instead of letting that hold me back, I learned to back myself, speak up and take opportunities before I felt ready.
Not because I suddenly felt confident, but because I kept doing the scary thing until I had the proof I could.
Going all in
So I built the space I wish I'd had.
I kept seeing the same thing in brilliant people around me: capable, funny, kind, and quietly playing small. So I went all in on Middle Kid Club.
Somewhere you don't have to fit a mould or pretend to have it all figured out. Somewhere to find people who get it, and learn to back yourself when it matters.
Join the club
Free to join. Easy to belong.
Get a small note from me every week, plus first dibs on events.
Prefer WhatsApp? Join the free community
Work for a company where coaching would help?
I also bring this into the workplace through MKC Consultancy.